The marital journey of former professional soccer player Brittany Matthews, now Brittany Mahomes since her marriage to Kansas City Chiefs quarterback Patrick Mahomes in March 2022, has encountered significant challenges.
Speculation began even before their wedding that Brittany’s first pregnancy in 2020 might have been a calculated financial move, given Patrick’s lucrative contract extension. This contract, worth over $500 million, followed his triumph in Super Bowl LIV. Some Twitter users lauded Brittany’s pregnancy, viewing it as a strategic move to solidify her financial future with Patrick.
Choosing to have a child before getting married was an unconventional path for Brittany and Patrick, but this isn’t necessarily a major concern in modern relationships. Their journey, which involved a long-term relationship since high school and surviving college as a couple, indicates a strong foundation. However, there are a few red flags in their marriage.
Public Scrutiny and Reactions
Brittany Mahomes’ sudden fame as an NFL WAG (wives and girlfriends) caught her off guard. She faced criticism from fans and encountered conflicts on social media platforms. Her responses to criticism and her interactions with fans have drawn attention.
While not necessarily indicative of the health of their marriage, public disagreements, and an overwhelming spotlight can add strain to a relationship.
Social Media Facade
Patrick and Brittany Mahomes’ social media presence portrays a seemingly picture-perfect marriage, filled with joyful moments and mutual affection. However, research suggests that those who emphasize an idealized relationship online may be masking insecurities.
Seeking validation and reactions from others on social media can sometimes indicate deeper issues within the relationship.
Brittany Mahomes Has Observed Women Flirting with Her Spouse
Despite Patrick’s faithfulness, Brittany has had to deal with women who flirt with her husband. How this dynamic is managed and whether Patrick actively discourages such behavior could be a point of concern. The presence of unwanted advances can lead to insecurities and potential conflicts between the couple. So, it’s definitely another red flag.
Communication Patterns
Patrick’s revelation that Brittany tends to shut down and become silent when upset is noteworthy.
During the GQ Couples Quiz in 2023, Patrick Mahomes disclosed that his wife tends to withdraw when she’s upset or angry. He explained, “You just get quiet,” a statement Brittany Mahomes affirmed as accurate. Patrick added, “I’m like, there is something wrong, and then I just walk in, and I’m just nervous.” In such moments, he finds himself attempting to decipher the issue without any input from Brittany.
This pattern, identified as a form of “stonewalling,” is considered a negative communication habit that can escalate into more serious problems.
Patrick’s habit of saying “Let me check with my wife” in situations where he expects a disappointing response shifts the dynamic of responsibility. This could inadvertently position Brittany as the “bad guy” in difficult conversations.